This post has been edited due to the REQUEST I say again REQUEST not that I had, wanted or needed to. Ok, let's call him Mr "I", due to Mr I's BF REQUEST to delete this post, because it seems Mr I has overdose on Panadol last night and Mr I's BF knew bout it only when the nurse picked up the phone on Mr I's behalf.... very kind nurse huh....... I even edit the pic....... In the end I decided not to delete because Im sure people all already knows whats going on and that people have already read this post so for the best interest of everyone and me included the best I can do is edit this post........BTW people, YES I AM A BITCH......BUT I WILL NEVER WANT TO SEE A FRIEND GO TO JAIL SO, NO I DID NOT REALLY MAKE A POLICE REPORT but LET ME JUST SAY THIS ONCE MORE MR I, STEAL FROM ANYONE AGAIN OR LIE TO ME AGAIN AND I WILL NOT BE SO NICE NEXT TIME!
Ok, I was fucking pissed off as some of you all may have know bout my Philips headphone going missing and finding out that a close friend stole it by seeing him very glamly posing in a pic with my cousin Gabby, my fren Diana, Dean and Danny...(Oh Ma...all Ds) from SOS Sentosa, my headphone was around his neck lah, that cheebye I told myself. After all I have done for that mat he stole from me again.....YES AGAIN! 1st time was at a chalet that Voguelicious and I threw for him, I caught him stealing a packet of NUTS...yes NUTS from my personal bag but I acted blur and just took it back from his bag that night as I did not want to malu him due to NUTS! At this time he was also suspended fm SOS Sentosa but he lied to me and told me that he took 2weeks leave.....HELLO.......I was working at SOS Sentosa wayyyyyy before you Mr I so, I still have ears there ok. I knew fm the get go that he was lying when he called me to ask me to give him a job at my already filled with staff Bitchy Beach shop. I took him in, gave him food and a job for 2weeks and he stole from me! The 1st week of him working there I spent more on staff salary than what the shop earned.....but I was helping a friend so I was ok with it. Every Voguelicious fork out $50 each for his Surprise Birthday Chalet and James, Darren and I came out with the remaining $1200 for food, drinks, chalet booking and what not......and he stole from me.........I really wonder what else he has stolen as at that very chalet a junior member of Voguelicious had $50 missing from his wallet......Yes it could have been anyone but.......
On the day of the chalet we had to delay time for Mr I to arrive to the chalet so, we got Mr I's BF to delay time and bring him here and there, we also got Mr I to go to Tampines Centre CC to register our names for the Ole! Tampines Day Dance Competition, I asked Mr I to help pay the $30 entree fee and wold pay him back when we meet.... the next dayMr I came to me and ask me for the $30 back asap because his BF had no cash to go home as his BF paid on our behalf so I gave Mr I the $30 and thought nothing of it till the next day. Mr I's BF sms me to tell me that he has transfer his share of the chalet to my acc but the amount was $30 less, so I told his BF that I already paid it to Mr I the day b4 and his BF was like........"Oh....ok I transfer the $30 to you later ok after work. I sms Mr I and ask him if he pass the $30 to his BF yet as since he said that his BF had no cash to go home, he replied and I still have the sms...... Oh, I kept it for myself as I need the cash.......Hello, than why tell me that you're BF asked for it and needed it? I owe I will pay I dun care what you do with it but why lie??????
So, that was that lah, but one day when we were going to have rehearsals at the Airport Mr I met us at the shop so we can take the same car to rehearsal and on that day strangely my cash register said I had 11 sales but in my sales book there was only written 10 sales and the register was short of $27.50...the amount of a discounted Cross Strap sandals........ I purposely said out loud just to test to see how he wold react as to tell you the truth I did not really trust him anymore at that time, I said...."Wow....so funny, $27.50 short fm my sales......It ok, I believe in Karma and my angel will tell me who stole" at the moment and I was not the only one that notice this, Mr I straight away had white face and got up and walk out of the shop........Hmmmmmm, yes, thats not proof that Isaac stole fm my sales as well but its just weird for an innocent to act that way.
So, coming back to my headphone......I mass sms all my frens an saying that the police ask me to sms my frens as so to give the thief a change to return my stuff and I dun press charges......Mr I sms back hours later acting innocent and very yaya..... "sorry for the late reply as I was at sos with the newbies, Eheh, who took your headphones???So drama until must report to police..... That cheebye......I HAVE PROOF LAH>>>>>>>>! so, I replied, eh eh, Mr I, I have proof lah, I have photo of this person wearing my headphone.............SILENT........no reply fm him till like mins later.......Desmond Im sorry, I stole your headphone, I took it because I sacred to return to you because that time after I at your house I watch porn I use to listen to the porn than I forgot to return you so after that I kept it because I scared you scold..............
Hello, you were at my house using my laptop and headphone so how in the mother fucking world did my headphone end up in you bag?????? Like Fauzi told me.... Want to lie plan properly want to steal dont take photo....... So, I told Mr I to meet me and the rest at Cineleisure as we were having dinner there followed by a movie.....he reach there giving the face that we all guess that he would give and change his story abit....he said that he scared to return my headphone when he forgot to put it back on my laptop(I ask again, how did it ended up in your bag???) because it hit the cab door and there was a small dot on it.......................and the only reason he wore the headphone again on that photo taking day with danny is cuz he had no choice due to his mother questioning him bout why the headphone is in his room...........HUH......wow, what a story.......
Even at that point I told him........., I accept your apology please change. All of us hug and made up and I told him that I have forgiven him but I cant forget what he has done and we were all very disappointed so he has to earn our trust back. Left it at that and thought that he had learn his lesson and will change.
Yesterday, a friend whom I totally trust told me over a tele-conversation that Mr I told his good friend that Voguelicious is BLINDED by Desmond Charles by all the help and free things he has given them and thats why Voguelicious dun listen to him anymore........Hello, wake up, you're not around enough to earn the respect or have anything to do with the planning of items so how to listen to you if you're never there and also, Voguelicious is not own my you, Izzy, Hairul, Jaz, Veron, Alif, Fadli or me, its not a product its a bunch of friends whom love each other and love to dance and perform as a group, there are no leaders......Mr I you always say, Oh...... My dancers........I am the leader of Voguelicious, than act like one, a leader comes to all rehearsals, does most of the planning and editing and a leader does not lie or steal..... Why do you feel threaten by me? I helped you all because its my way for paying it forward, repaying the help that I received when I started out, I help you all because I love you all like family not because I wanted to BLIND anyone......Anyway, like what everyone has said, most times I pay first for things but I will deduct from salary to pay back.
I sms Mr I asking him why he said this but he replied saying.........No, I never said such thing desmond, the person whom told you must be evil because I never said such thing...... just as I was calming down I was tele conferencing with Izzy and Veron telling them I was very hurt by Mr I's comments and that maybe he really did not say that because its here-say but Veron told me that Mr I has said the same thing to him before in the bus ""Mr I scared that Voguelicious gets BLINDED by Des lah said Mr I" There it was the same word that my friend told be that Mr I used Blinded........and veron said this word without knowing that I was told that Mr I used this word......anyways......
I sms Mr I again and told him that even Veron told me that he has said that before and he sms me the next morning saying that why would he have said that for no apparent reason...........and that Veron also complain to him bout something bout me.......Veron told me already that the complain was work related because Veron was scared that he cant wake up on time for work, it was work related not personal........WTF...........What kind of man are you Mr I? What kind of human are you.......in the wrong just say sorry and try your best to change dun push blame and say so, Veron also complain..........
Anyway, I really dun think he will change just by me bitching and giving tough love as what I was telling everyone that I would do.I still care and love him but if he can back stab me, lie to me and steal from me, he really left me no choice....
And for the record, Mt I sms all of us and its even in his new blog that he wants out of Voguelicious, he was not chase away. We already made a choice as a group that Mr I should stay but he needs to earn the respect and trust back the day before but giving the new info I think he made the right choice to leave the group but he will always be welcome back.....
There are more to Mr I than just the stealing and lying, he has even told people and my cousin Gabby that I pay him only $50 for a recent show. Yes I did but I asked everyone if they agree to that payment before I confirm with clients because clients had budget also on top of that I paid for the costumes......Everyone agreed to the payment and suddenly theres issues of me paying under market price.......hello fucker..... SOS you have to run like a mad horse and you get $60 for 2+1 shows only 4th show extra $20.......and you complain that I pay you $50 for 2 dance items with free flow of drinks and cash payment under market........????Did you also tell people, that you got paid $150 for your first drag show and that everything in this show was supplied my me??? From heels, to stockings, to costumes, to bras, to fae eye lashes and I even got a make up artiste to do the make up........???? Please, your already 24 act like one, stop telling lies and stop hurting people because you're jealous. yes, I have more than you but I earned it I did not steal it....
Even in your blog you admit that you stole but you make it sound like it was not planned, like you by mistake kept my headphone in your bag........I SAY AGAIN YOU THEIF, HOW DID MY HEADPHONES END UP IN YOUR BAG FM MY HOME???? HOW DOES NOT RETURNING IT BACK TO ME EQUALS NOT STEALING BUT SCARED TO RETURN?????
I forgive you but please please grow up, stop all this lies and rumours and jealousy and what not, change and earn the trust and respect back.
Those whom both sides of the story read his blog.
ps. Danny did you also lie to me when you told me that you check Mr I headphones and thats its not mine because Mr I admitted to me that he told you what happen after I called you and after I ask you not to tell Isaac that I asked you to check, Mr I said that you told him everything bout my call to you that I ask you to check on him. Mr I told me that he admitted to you that he stole from me.......but you sms me telling me that you saw his headphone and that it was not mine.....
Friends.....please dont judge Mr I, He is a nice person and maybe he just needs some advise so dont treat him any diff ok.......? Just watch your belongings.......
Des
